Thanksgiving.
Americans have been celebrating the
wonderful holiday known as Thanksgiving for a long time now. It
became an official federal holiday in 1863. Abraham Lincoln said that
we would use this holiday to give thanks to God for the good things
in our lives. That was 150 years ago. Today we typically use it as an
excuse to gorge ourselves on turkey, potatoes, stuffing, dinner
rolls, and lets not forget the pie. Pumpkin, chocolate, apple, the
list goes on. Once fully satiated we kick back on a comfy couch and
become absorbed in the football game. Thanksgiving has very little,
if anything, to do with religion these days. It has very little to do
with giving thanks for anything, let alone any divine being.
Around this time of year I become
confused about why people start posting facebook statues about “Today
I am thankful for …..”. So does that mean you are only thankful
for these things one day a year? What about the remaining 364 days of
the years? Or is thanksgiving only important to some people because
of Black Friday the next day? The amazing Christmas deals that only
come around once a year seem to be what many people are concentrating
on.
Here are some things I'm thankful for
365 days of the year.
Family – Where would any of us
be without our family? I'm not only talking about those we have
blood relations with because sometimes those people make our lives
harder than it should ever be, but I'm talking about those people in
your life who love you unconditionally, they support your dreams and
visions, and they are there for you in your very darkest hours. For
me I am lucky to have an amazing family. They've never doubted my
life goals and they've supported me every step of the way. It
doesn't stop there. I have so many “friends” that I consider
family. Living in Ghana has helped me realize the importance of
this. Family, brothers and sisters, isn't about your blood
relations. Its about your heart.
I don't need to mention friends
because they are my family.
My health. If you ask my parents
they can tell you how many times I've been to the emergency room,
but somehow I've grown into a healthy woman. Even since I've been in
Ghana I've had very few encounters with any tropical diseases and
I've been able to fully recover.
My life. The experiences I've had
whether good or bad are all so valuable. They've made me the person
I am today and I wouldn't change that for the world. Do I believe
things happen for a reason? I'm not sure. But I do know that all the
wonderful and terrible things that have happened to me have brought
me to this very moment in my life and I'm happy about that so I
wouldn't change anything.
Sometimes I'll just be sitting on my
steps at night watching the stars, and I think that my blessing in
life amount to more than all the stars in all the galaxies. I'm just
one person on this huge planet full of millions of people and I have
so much to be thankful for. Not just one day out of year though. I
count my good fortune any chance I get.
Living in a different part of the world
has open my eyes to so many issues that you can never fully
understand until you experience it. I've become thankful for not only
the things I have, but also for the things I don't have of I've never
had to experience. I am not saying I've seen or experienced all of
these things in Ghana, but I have at least learned about these things
happening in many parts of the world today.
I'm thankful that I am not
currently suffering from malaria. Fever, chills, headaches, nausea,
diarrhea, body pains, etc.
I am thankful that I am not a
mother of malnourished children who are crying in the night with
empty bellies.
I am thankful that I have not lost
my parents or any loved ones to HIV/AIDS.
I am thankful that I don't have a
distended stomach full of worms.
I am thankful that I could take a
school bus to school instead of walking up to an hour both ways.
I am thankful that I have an
endless supply of clean drinking water.
I am thankful that I'm not abused
every day by a parent/spouse.
I am thankful that I don't live
every day in fear of bombs being dropped on my home.
I'm thankful that my life hasn't
been lost to drugs, alcohol or prostitution.
The truth is I could go on for years. I
think the list of things that I'm thankful for not having is much
longer than the list of things I'm thankful I have. I see that as a
good thing.
I think we all get lost sometimes in
our own worlds without ever even considering the fact that no matter
how bad our lives are, there is probably someone worse off. Every
time I imagine that it's very humbling.
This year for thanksgiving I traveled
to my friend Jessica's site in the Upper West Region of Ghana. We
didn't celebrate on the actual day, but that weekend we feasted.
Fried guinea fowl (kind of like chicken), yam salad (like potato
salad except with yams), instant mashed potatoes, stove top stuffing,
mac and cheese, green bean casserole, and deviled eggs. Everything
was delicious. The best part about our thanksgiving feast wasn't the
mass quantities of food though. It was sharing our feast with two
Ghanaian friends. We took pictures and explained the meaning of
thanksgiving to them. We made them try each and every dish and the
best part was that their favorite dish was the boxed mac and cheese.
Who knew that the cheapest, easiest thing would be such a hit! We had
a wonderful time sharing stories and laughing. I will remember this
thanksgiving forever.
As I write this I only hope that people
around the world can learn to be a little more thankful for the
things they have instead of wishing for more. Also, we all need to
take a second and realize that so long as we are alive, and we have
food/water/shelter, then our lives aren't really that bad. We
struggle and suffer. That's life sometimes. Speak to people with kind
words and always have heart for them. You never know the struggles
they are dealing with in their lives and you never know if one day
someone will be thankful that you took the time to appreciate them
and give them a reason to live.